Go From Constant Chaos to A Calm Home With A Family That Works Together, Empowers Each Other, And Enjoys Being Together

Give us 90-days, and we’ll help you:

😤 Stay calm during the most epic meltdowns, tantrums, or outbursts

⚔️ Eliminate your child’s most challenging behavior

👪 Create a family that just works

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Discover a simple 4-step framework you can use to go from:

Fighting 24/7 with your kids to having no arguments for months (you’ll forget the last time you yelled)

Epic meltdowns 5X/day to no meltdowns for months

Dreading each day to excited about the future -- because your child has the skills to stay calm, self-regulate, and grow up to be a happy, successful adult others love to be around

Proven with 1,500 families with kids aged 2-17. This framework is built for the most challenging kids. Including those who are nonverbal, have anxiety, ODD, SPD, ASD, PTSD and any other label…

...as well as kids who were kicked out of multiple schools for constant, aggressive outbursts…


Just imagine…

The fights, meltdowns, backtalk, and other issues go from happening 5X a day to once or twice a month. And when they do happen, you know exactly what to do (Parents who once judged you in those situations and say, “Wow! I can’t believe how well you handled that!)

Your kids follow routines for morning, bedtime and virtual learning with no prompting (You even walk downstairs to find they cleaned the kitchen as a gift for you)

Your kids solve problems on their own -- no more hearing “MOOOOMM!!!!” anytime you turn your back. Instead, you see kids play together, compliment each other, and solve problems on their own.

And instead, you have a calm home filled with game nights, dance parties in the kitchen, and kids giggling in the next room.

Hi, I’m Dayna Abraham, founder of Calm the Chaos. Since 2013 we’ve helped hundreds of thousands of desperate parents and caregivers at the end of their rope.

If you:

  • Feel exhausted and depleted from the constant chaos
  • Believe your situation was hopeless
  • Blame yourself and feel like it’s your fault
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It’s not your fault.
There is hope.

We have a proven, battle-tested program that works for even the most challenging kids

You’ll go beyond eliminating challenging behaviors. And actually, build a family that works together, empowers each other, and enjoys being together.

Here’s how it works:

Why Calm the Chaos Works
For Even the Most Challenging Kids

Reason #1

A Simple Framework to defuse any challenging behavior

Our simple framework combines everything you know about parenting, your child, and your family.

It puts it all into easy-to-follow steps to eliminate challenging behaviors while strengthening your relationship with your kids.

And this framework grows with you. So as your child gets older and new challenges pop up, you can use this framework to handle any new challenges.

Reason #2

Uncover the root cause of challenging behaviors

All challenging behaviors are the result of an unmet need.

Your child may not know what that need is, or how to express it.

If you don’t know the root cause, the behaviors and power struggles will continue.

But once you know what’s behind their challenging behavior (and it’s more than a need for power, attention, or their diagnosis) then you can get the challenges to melt away.

Reason #3

Give your child the skills to succeed

Most parenting advice is about how to control your child’s behavior.

Usually through fear, natural consequences, firm limits, or whatever else.

But our job isn’t to merely raise compliant kids.

It’s to raise kids who can think for themselves, solve problems, have empathy for others, control their emotions, and make good choices on their own.

All this is built into our framework. So your kid will naturally develop these skills simply by following our steps. And your child will have the skills to grow into a happy, successful adult.

Reason #4

Customized to your unique child & family

Our framework is not a one-size-fits-all solution.

It takes your child’s age, diagnosis, and unique qualities into account.

So you can stop wasting YEARS trying “tips and tricks” that worked for others yet don’t work for you.

And instead, create customized plans that work for your unique family.

Reason #5

Hand-holding and support

You’ll work with experts who will:

Listen to your struggles
Work with you to create plans that work for your family
Keep tweaking and adjusting your plans until you have a family that just works.

Plus, an amazing community of parents and caregivers who “get it.” Who know what it’s like to raise a challenging kid.

You don’t have to go it alone.

You can do this with an amazing community that has your back. Doesn’t judge you. And will give you a big hug on your toughest days.

You get all this inside Calm the Chaos 4.0…


Everyone said they couldn’t help. Until Amber reached out to Dayna.

Before the Calm The Chaos program, Amber was barely surviving. 

Her son Orion would be fine at school, but the moment he got home he would explode. it was more than she could bear. Covered in bites and bruises, looking for help everywhere she could, and hearing over and over again “we can’t help you” and “we’ve never seen this before.”

Hurt, scared, and alone, Amber felt like a total failure... She knew she needed to change something, and quick.

Then, on a late-night internet crawl, Amber found a five-minute clip of The Iceberg Theory, and started the process of turning her family life around.



Calm The Chaos 4.0

A Fail-proof Road Map for Parenting Even the Most Challenging Kids

Calm The Chaos 4.0

Calm the Chaos 4.0 is an 8-week program designed to take you from barely surviving to thriving with your family.

You get 6 modules dripped out over 8 weeks.

All the lessons are broken down into bite-size 5-10 minutes.

You can watch at your own pace.


Your Foundation

⭐ Diffuse and eliminate any challenging behavior with the You-CUE framework

⭐ The Calm the Chaos Roadmap to go from barely surviving to thriving as a family

⭐ How to get even the most challenging child to self-regulate, solve problems, and get along with others

Stage 1:

Your Ride the Storm Plan

⭐ What to say and do to keep you and your family safe when your child gets violent

⭐ Stay calm and connected through your child’s worst moments

⭐ Build deep trust and connection so your child calms down and listens

Stage 2:

Your 5-minute Time and Energy Plan

⭐ Recharge your battery in under 5 minutes a day

⭐ Free up 2+ hours a day (so you can nap, rest, and not feel behind)

⭐ Go from exhausted and overwhelmed to calm and confident

Stage 3:

Your In-The-Moment Plan

⭐ What to say and do to instantly diffuse any challenging behavior when it happens

⭐ Reduce overwhelm and feel confident in your parenting using “Thought Monsters”

⭐ Stay calm even when you’re exhausted (so you don’t “lose it” and make things worse

Stage 4:

Your Ahead Of The Moment Plan

⭐ What to say and do to stop challenging behaviors from happening in the first place

⭐ Find the “hidden triggers” causing your child’s meltdowns, defiance, backtalk, and more using the Behavioral Spiral.

⭐ Get your family to solve problems together using Huddles (so not everything falls on your shoulders to fix)

Stage 5:

Your Family Success Plan

⭐ Create smooth and successful routines your child is excited to follow using the YOU-CUE framework (works for mornings, bedtime, schoolwork -- anything)

⭐ Ditch the rules, punishments, consequences, and get your kids to follow directions and help around the house using value-based family systems

⭐ How to discipline your child without yelling, shaming, threats, or other methods that destroy your connection


By the end, you’ll have finished, customized plans for stages 1-5

Join Today and Get $1706.99 In Bonuses, Free!

Bonus #1:

Facilitation, Coaching, and Daily Support With 3-Months Of FREE NextStep Membership

Calm the Chaos 4.0 gives you the training.

But the real magic comes from implementation.

We won’t leave you alone to figure it all out.

We’ll take you by the hand every step of the way. And help you make small tweaks that lead to rapid results. 

So as a bonus, you’ll get 3 months of FREE NextStep membership

As a NextStep Member, you get:

Weekly facilitation calls Connect with parents and caregivers who “get it”. And who can shift your perspective so you feel more confident and less overwhelmed.

Unlimited coaching -- You get group coaching calls plus a private “video ask” feature that lets you ask our coaches questions and get support any time of day. 

Accountability -- Peer-led accountability pods to help you stay on track

Proven scripts and plans -- Know exactly what to say at every stage. Plus, get simple checklists and workbooks that make it easy to apply what you learn

Examples from families who used this material, so you can see how it works for:

  • Teens
  • Toddlers
  • Nonverbal children
  • Large families
  • Homeschool families
  • Grandparents
  • Foster children.
  • Children with ADHD, ODD, ASD, and any other alphabet soup label out there

Community Support
Connect with parents and caregivers who “get it.” So you can know you are not alone. And have an incredible support network to pick you up no matter how bad things get.

Bonus #2:

No Time No Problem

(value $499)

Free up 1-2 hours a day with the same time-management strategies I use to raise kids and run a business. All while struggling with executive functioning and likely having undiagnosed ADHD.

This is our most popular program. It’s been updated to help those who struggle with mental health, overwhelm, or neurodivergence.

Bonus #3:

Calm the Chaos: A Failproof Roadmap for parenting even the most challenging kids" book

(Value 19.99)

Our brand new book that details each step of the roadmap. And shares stories showing how parents and caregivers like you went from barely surviving to thriving.

Bonus #4:

Navigating Different Parenting Styles:

(value $199)

⭐ How to get your spouse (or your ex) on board with this new way of parenting

⭐ How to have difficult conversations with your spouse about parenting challenges

⭐How to get others to understand why you’re raising your child this way -- so you don’t deal with constant criticism or teachers/grandparents/your ex undoing your hard work

Bonus #5:

Calm The Chaos Experience Debrief

(value $499)

You deserve personalized support and guidance to ensure that you're making the most out of your Calm The Chaos Journey. That's why we're excited to offer you a one-on-one debrief call with one of our experienced Calm The Chaos Coaches.

After the course has completedl, you'll have the opportunity to share your feedback, insights, and concerns. Our coaches will help you identify areas where you're feeling stuck and provide actionable strategies to keep you moving forward. We'll also take a closer look at your progress and celebrate your wins along the way!

This bonus is all about giving you the support you need to make your Calm The Chaos experience a success. Don't miss out on this priceless opportunity to get the personalized help you deserve.

Bonus #6:

CTC For Your Unique Family:

(value $199)

⭐ Get Your Defiant Teen to Actually Listen to You

⭐ How to Understand Your Nonverbal Child

⭐ Conquer Your Finances Bundle

Single Mom Survival Kit

⭐ Diagnosis Survival Guide

⭐ How to Get Your Spouse On Board (Even If They Parent the OLD WAY)


Calm the Chaos 4.0 is normally $999.

But as a THANK YOU for everyone who participated in our 7 Days to Less Chaos series, we are giving you a special deal.

You’ve shown your commitment to creating a family that works. So you’ll get the full course, 3 months NextStep Membership, and everything else for $2,005.99 $499.


✅ Lifetime access to Calm the Chaos 4.0 ($999 value)

✅ Bonus #1: 3 Months Of NextStep Membership ($291 value)

✅ Bonus #2: No Time, No Problem ($499 value)

✅ Bonus #3: Calm The Chaos Book ($19.99 value)

✅ Bonus #4: Navigating Different Parenting Styles ($199 value)

✅ Bonus #5: Calm The Chaos Experience Debrief Call ($499 value)

Bonus #6: CTC For Your Unique Family ($199 value)

Total value:$2,705.99

Limited Time Price


* After your 3 months, your NextStep Membership will renew at $97/month unless you cancel your membership.


Commonly Asked Questions


If you have any questions, give me a call at 630.337.8139. And yes, this is my real phone number. Call or text me.

I will listen to your situation and answer any questions. So you can decide whether or not this is right for you.

We understand that time is a precious resource for parents. The Calm the Chaos program is designed with busy parents in mind, offering bite-sized lessons and strategies that can be easily integrated into your daily routine. The included "No Time, No Problem" bonus will also help you manage your time more effectively, freeing up additional hours in your day.

Making changes to ingrained habits and patterns can be challenging, but the Calm the Chaos program provides the supportive environment you need to explore new approaches. Our expert guidance and community of parents who have faced similar challenges will help you navigate this transition with confidence, making it easier to embrace new strategies and experience the benefits they can bring to your family dynamics.

The Calm the Chaos program includes access to expert coaching and a community of like-minded parents, giving you the support network you need to succeed. You'll be able to share your experiences, ask questions, and receive encouragement from others who understand your challenges, ensuring you never feel alone in your journey.

Calm the Chaos is different from other parenting programs as it offers a simple, customizable framework that goes beyond just eliminating challenging behaviors. It helps you build a family that works together, empowers each other, and enjoys being together. To support you in making lasting changes, the program offers coaching and community support to help you stay consistent, even during stressful periods. Our experts will work with you to tweak and adjust your plans, ensuring you stay on track and achieve lasting results for your family. With the guidance and support from our community of parents and caregivers, you'll have the resources you need to overcome past challenges and make positive changes for your family's well-being.

Calm the Chaos takes a customized approach, considering your child's age, diagnosis, and unique qualities, and has a proven track record of helping parents and caregivers with even the most challenging children. The program focuses on uncovering the root cause of challenging behaviors, giving your child the skills to succeed, and providing support through expert guidance and a community of parents who have faced similar challenges. This tailored approach increases the likelihood of success and creates a more harmonious family environment.

The Calm the Chaos program includes a bonus called "Parenting with Different Parenting Styles" to address these challenges. This bonus will teach you how to effectively communicate and collaborate with family members or co-parents, resolve conflicts, and create a consistent approach that benefits your entire family. You'll also learn how to get your spouse or co-parent on board with this new way of parenting, have difficult conversations about parenting challenges, and get others to understand why you're raising your child this way to avoid constant criticism or others undoing your hard work.

The Calm the Chaos program is an investment in your family's well-being and happiness. The program includes lifetime access to the Calm the Chaos 4.0 modules, three months of NextStep membership with expert coaching and support, and three valuable bonus programs. While the total value of the program is $2,005.99, it is currently available for a limited-time price of $499, making it a cost-effective solution for transforming your family life.

Try it risk-free for 30-Days

When you join Calm the Chaos 4.0, you get a full 30 days to try it out.

If you don’t see a HUGE difference in your ability to stay calm and diffuse challenging behaviors, I insist you ask for a refund.

We built our company on getting results. If you don’t see a major life change, then you won’t pay a penny.

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Dayna Abraham, bestselling author of The Superkids Activity Guide to Conquering Every Day and Sensory Processing 101, is on a mission to create a more accepting world, one challenging kid at a time.

As a National Board Certified educator, parent of three neurodivergent children, and an ADHD adult herself, Dayna brings a unique and out-of-the-box perspective to parents raising kids in the modern world. She is the founder of the popular parenting website Lemon Lime Adventures, which has accumulated more than forty-one million viewers in less than seven years.

Through her compassionate framework, Calm the Chaos, she has helped millions of desperate parents around the world, find peace and meet their children where they're at when conventional parenting tools have failed them.

With a weekly reach of more than 1.2 million people on social media, and more than two hundred thousand parents attending her Calm the Chaos free workshop, she has become a proven and trusted leader in the parenting community.

Her work has been showcased in HuffPost, Scary Mommy, BuzzFeed, ADDitude Magazine, and Positive Parenting Solutions. She lives in Little Rock, Arkansas with her three amazing children, her husband, Jason, and two huge Newfoundland puppies, Luna and Koda.

"The school called, and for the first time, it was good news..."

Ashley Fraser

“I’m able to work through meltdowns without losing it…”


“I’m calmer and less triggered…”


“My kids are getting along so well!"

Emily Sierk

“Given me more than the therapist my son has been seeing”


“Finished our first full week of school and I’m really happy…”


"Therapist says she’s a more skillful parent"


"Made it through distance learning without a fight"


Works for 22-month-old son


“I have a framework that works for all my kids”

Vicki Brookes

“No arguments and the meltdowns have reduced...”


Her boy used to get frustrated so fast… now he comes and talks to her instead


“My kid switched gears and cleaned the whole basement for me as a surprise”


“Son stopped himself twice from spiraling into full blown meltdown…”


“We haven’t laughed and enjoyed being together like this in so long”


“Went to the children’s museum… no meltdowns like in the past”

Rachel Perillo

“Instead of epic battles, fighting and crying, kids where laughing, giggling and having a fun time...”

Amy Riordan

“He stopped screaming and used his words”



✅ Lifetime access to Calm the Chaos 4.0 ($999 value)

✅ Bonus #1: 3 Months Of NextStep Membership ($291 value)

✅ Bonus #2: No Time, No Problem ($499 value)

✅ Bonus #3: Calm The Chaos Book ($19.99 value)

✅ Bonus #4: Navigating Different Parenting Styles ($199 value)

Bonus #5: Calm The Chaos Experience Debrief Call ($499 value)

✅ Bonus #6: CTC For Your Unique Family ($199 value)

Total value:$2,705.99

Limited Time Price


* After your 3 months, your NextStep Membership will renew at $97/month unless you cancel your membership.

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