Proven scripts and strategies to handle any meltdown without losing your cool

How To Instantly Diffuse Any Meltdown
Without Yelling, Shaming or Threats

Proven over 8 years with 5,000+ kids with ADHD, ASD, ODD, SPD, anxiety, and meltdowns so bad they were kicked out of multiple schools.

Get proven scripts and strategies to help you:

  • Stay calm and help your to child calm down fast.

  • Keep the meltdowns, tantrums and outbursts from happening by understanding the real reasons behind them.

  • End the daily battles over transitions, electronics, bedtime, and more -- and get your family to enjoy being around each other again.

Proven scripts and strategies to handle any meltdown without losing your cool

How To Instantly Diffuse Any Meltdown Without Yelling, Shaming or Threats

Get proven scripts and strategies to help you:

  • Stay calm and help your to child calm down fast.

  • Keep the meltdowns, tantrums and outbursts from happening by understanding the real reasons behind them.

  • End the daily battles over transitions, electronics, bedtime, and more -- and get your family to enjoy being around each other again.

Proven over 8 years with 3,000+ kids with ADHD, ASD, ODD, SPD, anxiety, and meltdowns so bad they were kicked out of multiple schools.

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Grab-and-Go Solutions
Designed to Get You FAST WINS

With The Huddle, you won’t need to wade through hours of content.

You come in with a specific challenge (like aggressive meltdowns, your child refusing to put away electronics, etc.) 

Then you grab the ready-to-use script, plan, or playbook for that behavior.

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Armed with that, you’ll know how to calm the problem fast.

And if you get stuck, you can ask our team for help, and they’ll point you to the resource you need.

So you can get quickly diffuse the bedtime struggles, battles over electronics, sibling fighting, and without losing your cool.

Results from a few of our 2997+ Huddle members

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Why none of the parenting advice
you tried has worked...

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Hi, I’m Dayna Abraham, bestselling author of 2 parenting books and founder of Calm the Chaos.

Looking back now, I realize that all the material out there just gave me pieces of the puzzle. 

Nobody showed me how it all fit together.

For example, I learned that “all behavior is communication.” Yet nobody taught me how to figure out what my child was communicating through those meltdowns.

And nobody showed me how to use that understanding to empower my kid so he could get his needs met without hitting and screaming. (Saying “use your words” certainly didn’t help.)

After many years of fighting, tears, and wondering if I was unfit to be my son’s mom, I uncovered a framework that fit together all the best lessons that I had learned.

A framework that lets you understand what’s behind your child’s meltdownsconnect with them through the hard times… empower them to express themselves and get their needs met in a healthy way…

...and keeps YOU calm and in-control the whole time.

With this framework -- which we call YOU-CUE (for You, connect, understand and empower) my son...

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Went from having epic meltdowns 5x a day to none for months at a time!

Since then, I’ve taught this framework to 5,000+ parents, teachers, and therapists. 

Without fail, they see the same results.

Like Galikali, whose son had epic meltdowns after school and would hit his brother.

We showed her how to uncover what was causing the violent meltdowns -- It turned out, her son missed her while he was at school. And that anger exploded when he got home.

Once she knew this, she used the YOU-CUE framework to create a plan with her son and the meltdowns faded away.

You see, it wasn’t about threats, bribes, or “being more consistent.” It was about looking beyond the hitting to find her son’s real needs -- then working with him to solve the real problem.

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Or Megan, whose daughter refused to take a bath. 

Rather than “laying down the law” and risking an epic battle, Megan used the YOU-CUE framework to uncover what would make her daughter feel good about taking a bath

It turned out all her daughter needed was to sip out of her special rainbow cup. Once she had it, she happily took the bath.

And this framework doesn’t just work for meltdowns.
You can use it to handle any challenging behavior!

You can use the YOU-CUE  framework to help with: 

  • Overcoming Overwhelm

  • How to Stay Connected

  • Using Time to Take Control

  • Keep Moving Without Your Partner

  • Mean Behavior

  • End Morning Mayhem

  • How to Get Your Kids to Play

  • Losing Your Cool

  • Defiance

  • Negative Self Talk

  • Talking With Teens

  • Transitions

  • Aggressive Meltdowns

  • Advocating With School

  • Electronics

  • Running Away

  • Bedtime

  • Hitting, Kicking, Biting

  • Chores

  • Family Team

  • Demand Avoidance

  • Lying

You get all that and tons more inside the Calm the Chaos Huddle.

Introducing

Calm the Chaos Huddle

Proven scripts and strategies to handle any meltdown without losing your cool

The Huddle shows you what to say and do to help your child calm down fast anytime they start hitting, crying, or screaming “NO!!” at the top of their lungs. 

You’ll also know what to say afterward so that the behavior doesn’t happen again (without threats or bribes).

When you join the Huddle, you get:

  • Get 24+ Proven Scripts and Plans to Instantly Diffuse Almost Any Challenging Behavior($600 value)

    These plans help you stay calm and handle different types of meltdowns.

    You’ll know what to say and do when your child starts to run away, hits you, insults you and more. 

    These are proven plans used by thousands of moms. They’ll help you stay calm and calm your child fast. 

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  • Skill Building Activities for Self-Regulation ($250)

    Just imagine the next time your kid gets upset -- instead of turning red and letting out a blood-curdling scream, you see them take deep breaths and close their eyes...and you see their shoulders relax and their anger disappear.

  • These skill building activities show you how to make that happen.

    These are simple, fun activities you can do anytime and place with your kid.

    They help your child build self-awareness and self-regulation. So they can keep themselves calm when they feel upset rather than erupting like a volcano.

    These are also great for deepening your connection. And they give your child the skills to get along with others and grow up to be a happy adult. 

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  • Stay Calm Thought Swaps ($200 value)

    If you ever feel triggered and “snap” at your kids, these are for you.

    Stay Calm Thought Swaps are the secret to keeping your cool and feeling compassion for your kids even when they scream, “I hate you!” 

    It’s all about tweaking that little voice inside your head.

  • For example, if you think, “My child is giving me a hard time” when they start melting down, you’re more likely to get triggered and snap.

    However, if you swap that to, “My child is having a hard time” then it’s easier to stay calm and have compassion. 

    This is just one example of a Stay Calm Thought Swap. We’ll give you dozens more. 

    And every month, you get a new swap to handle specific situations. So you can stay calm while dealing with a picky eater, sibling fighting, school refusal and more. 

  • The Handle Challenging Behavior Playbook ($999 value)

    You get a playbook that shows you exactly what to say and do to handle specific challenging behaviors.

    There are over a dozen playbooks waiting for you in the Huddle already.

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  • They include: 

    • How to get out of overwhelm and create time for yourself
    • How to get siblings to play together nicely
    • How to get picky eaters to try new foods without a fight
    • How to get your child to do schoolwork without a fuss
    • How to stay connected with your kid through the struggles

    You also get a new playbook every single month for a new challenging behavior. 

    For example, we are creating playbooks on how to handle a spouse who doesn’t agree with your parenting style, how to handle electronics battles and more.

Each playbook consists of four parts.

First, you get a short training video. This ~5 minute video shows you how one of our members used our YOU-CUE framework to handle a specific challenging behavior.

Next, you get the proven scripts they used so you can use them to handle that same challenging behavior.

You also get a step-by-step guide laying out all the steps they took and how you can do the same. These are short and sweet. You can glance at it in 10 seconds and know exactly what to do.

Finally, you get a poster with the key steps laid out so you easily implement them and get results.

In short, you get to see how other parents --  like you --  used our material to handle a specific problem. Then you get scripts, steps, and tools to get the exact same results with your child.

  • Calm the Chaos Roadmap Core Trainings ($200 value)

    This 5 part fundamental video training you can create your own personalized plans tailored to your own family’s unique needs, quirks, diagnosis, etc…Not just for in the moment.

    But you’ll also be able to finally get ahead of the challenges before they start. Boost your own time and energy even if you are depleted or struggle with your own executive functions and even create family systems such as morning and bedtime routines.

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  • Binge-worthy Video Vault ($500 Value)

    100+ binge-worthy training videos to solve your biggest behavior challenges.

    So you can find answers to your burning questions when you need them most.

    Think of it like Netflix for parenting, curated resources for you
    to find exactly what you are looking for in less time and with less confusion.

    These are our best trainings over 8 years all curated for you.

    They cover everything from:

    • Executive Functioning
    • Sensory Struggles
    • Anxiety
    • Backtalk
    • Routines
    • Getting Your Kid to Listen
    • Electronic battles
    • And more
The total value is $3,248

But you can get access to it all today when you join The Huddle for $3,248 just $27/month

When you join the Huddle today, you also get these bonuses FREE!

  • Bonus #1: Craft Your Emergency Plan Workshop ($499 value)

    This plan tells you exactly what to say and do to keep yourself and your family safe during a dangerous meltdown.

    If you’re worried your child will hurt themselves, their sibling, or you, this plan will help keep you and your family safe.

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  • BONUS #2: Private Community with Experts ($300 Value)

    If you get stuck or have a question post in our private forum, one of our Calm the Chaos experts will answer it.

    They’ll show you the script, plan, or training you need to handle any challenge you face.

    This way you don’t have to slog through a bunch of material.

    You can get personalized answers to your biggest challenges.

    So you can get a handle on them in minutes instead of struggling for weeks.

  • BONUS# 3: Parenting While Triggered ($297 Value)

    This course shows you exactly what to do when you’re triggered so you don’t freak out everyone around you or scar your kids! 

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YES! I'm ready to GET ACCESS to this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity and put this Calm the Chaos Huddle Membership to work in my family today!

  • Grab and Go | In the Moment Plans

    Simple Connected Scripts
    Step By Step Playbooks
    Fun & Engaging Skill Building Exercises
    Easy to Remember Thought Swaps

  • Your Own Personalized Plan Roadmap

  • Binge-worthy Video Vault

  • Bonus #1: Craft Your Emergency Plan Workshop ($499 value)

  • Bonus #2: Private community with experts ($300 value)

  • Bonus #3: Parenting While Triggered Masterclass ($299 Value)

Join Monthly

Just $27/month

Click Here to Add to Cart. Cancel Anytime.

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Annual Bonus: Done For You Plan

Just $270/year

Click Here to Save $54!!!

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Guarantee #1:

Test-Drive The Program for 30 Days

When you enroll, you’ll have 30 days to go through EVERYTHING inside the program, and if for whatever reason… and I mean ANY reason… if you don’t feel like this was the best investment you’ve made, simply email Katie at help@calmthechaosframework.com

and we’ll gladly refund your entire investment… no questions asked!

Everything You Need to Instantly Diffuse Any Meltdowns

All for less than $1 / Day.

That’s over $3,248 in value, but you won’t pay anywhere near that.

Normally access to The Huddle is $47/month, or $564 for the year. (If you choose the monthly option, you can cancel anytime.)

But for a limited time, if you commit to a full year, you'll save 50%, $270 up front!

That comes to $.77 a day! 

Over 2997+ parents are already inside The Huddle. They’re waiting to cheer you on and support you. And our experts are standing by ready to answer any questions you have.

We hope to see you inside!

If you have any questions or concerns about the course, call or email us. We're happy to help!

help@calmthechaosframework.com

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Frequently Asked Questions

If you choose the monthly option you can cancel anytime and you won’t be billed again (but if you cancel and want to rejoin, you’ll have to pay the new price...which will definitely be higher!)

It’s like Netflix. You invest $47 each month for as long as you want access to our scripts, playbooks, trainings, community, and expert advice. 

If you decide it’s not for you, no problem. You can email us at help@calmthechaosframework.com and we’ll cancel your membership.

If you are within your first 30 days, you may receive a refund. 

The Huddle is designed to get you FAST WINS.

There’s no need to sit through hours of videos.

You come in with a challenging behavior you want to handle. Then grab the script, plan, or playbook you need and go. And you’ll be able to handle that issue fast.

And if you get stuck, you can ask our team for help, and they’ll point you to the resource you need.

We have scripts and plans inside for almost any challenging behavior, including bedtime struggles, battles over electronics, sibling fighting, and more.

Nope! Not for as long as you're a member.

We will likely double the cost of membership soon. But if you join today, you’ll be locked in at the current rate for as long as you’re a member. So you’ll pay much less than those who join after you.

You will get access to a private community of 1,000+ Calm the Chaos Huddle members and experts.

You get access to parents like you who will have your back. No Judgey Mcjudgersons are allowed in. This is a safe space to share what’s happening and get support from parents who get it.

You also get access to our team. They will guide you to the perfect resource for you. So you don’t have to waste time wading through all the material. You’ll get the exact scripts and steps you need to handle whatever challenging behavior you’re facing.

What some of the 2997+ Huddle members are saying

“[I can now] help my child through meltdowns by not reacting myself”

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“I can dress our little girl without getting stressed…”

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“Just wanted to say how thankful I am for huddle…”

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“I’m not alone”

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Husband started to use the framework...

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“Such a calmer household now”

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“[My daughter] opened up to me…”

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Join Monthly

Just $27/month

Click Here to Add to Cart. Cancel Anytime.

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Annual Bonus: Done For You Plan

Just $270/year

Click Here to Save $54!!!

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